Think of music not in symbolic terms, nor as syntax and grammar. Think of music in physical terms, as energy and matter.
Think of form not as a succession of sound events, but rather as a fontal happening with a shape made out of texture, transparency/opacity, density, weight and movement.
Think of content not as a reflection of experience but as experience itself.
Think of change not as the actions done by time nor as transfer from some-thing to another thing. Think of change as transition, as continuation-modification. Think of time as life itself.
Think with your heart, your senses and your mind.